In this statement, vow to do what you can to be a good spouse … specifically … and note good things about your relationship and your time with each other.
“I, ________, promise to act in loving and respectful ways with you. I cherish you for your honesty and caring commitment to me and to our relationship. I promise to answer questions that you have openly and honestly and listen to you without judgment.”
Read your pledge to each other every night. Update them as you go through your life together.