Thursday, December 13, 2007

Parenting Toddlers

What a wonderful age … they are interested and interesting. While dependent upon you, they also are beginning to look outward and explore a little of their own territory. So lovely to see their delight with new things.

They also can be moody and stubborn, give hugs and kisses one minute and then explode in a temper tantrum the next.

Check out some of the really good sites on the net that share developmental milestones and parenting techniques.

This is the age when parenting differences can begin to emerge. It is very important for you and your spouse to make sure to talk ideas and differences over to come to an understanding about how each other thinks … and determine approaches that you can accept. Rearing children is a perpetual issue for many couples … and it is far more important for people to get along than to win a point.

Some worry about their ability to be a good parent, particularly if they did not receive good parenting when they were children. One of the most important things is to be able to manage your own feelings when with your children so that you can find ways to be with them that are not reactive (other than when loving) and more pro-active about handling problems with their lives.

Please share your ideas, comments and questions.

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