Unhappy with where things are right now between you and your partner?
Wonder if couples therapy might make a difference?
What do you have to lose? Facing up to the situation and owning your part in it can be a step in the right direction.
Most couples wait a long time after a problem develops before they ever ask for help. Research shows that problems may go on for 6 years before a couple either asks for help or ends the marriage.
The longer that a problem goes on, the more likely it is that positive feelings and behaviors will erode and disappear. Couples therapy may be able to help you resolve the problems that you are experiencing.
A skilled and knowledgeable couples therapist can provide a safe haven to talk about the hardest of issues and can teach you the skills to be able to carry on those conversations at home.
Good marriage counselors do not want their couples to hang around forever. They want them to be able to be successful on their own.
Here are some good reasons to see a couples therapist.
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