Dream together about your ideal sex life and sex partner.
Does your spouse perceive you as a “poor lover”? Do you wish that he or she had a better idea of what pleases you when making love?
Talk together about your ideal love-making. Think of it as more of a “dream” or miracle conversation. Find a time when the two of you are relaxed and alone. Play with it. Be creative and a little humorous.
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Tuesday, September 21, 2010
Friday, September 10, 2010
Marriage and Sex: Tip Number 4
Women: Your man may not understand what you mean by “intimacy“.
He really may not have the same idea that you do about how to be intimate and connected outside of the bedroom in order for you to be ready for intimacy in the bedroom.
For men, intimacy often means activities together, which includes sex. Men often feel connected and intimate AFTER making love and then are more able to talk and act in loving ways.
Gently and lovingly share with your partner what you want and need, then look for his efforts in that direction and let him know how much you appreciate them.
He really may not have the same idea that you do about how to be intimate and connected outside of the bedroom in order for you to be ready for intimacy in the bedroom.
For men, intimacy often means activities together, which includes sex. Men often feel connected and intimate AFTER making love and then are more able to talk and act in loving ways.
Gently and lovingly share with your partner what you want and need, then look for his efforts in that direction and let him know how much you appreciate them.
Tuesday, September 7, 2010
Marriage and Sex: Tip Number 3
Talk together about what you like about the marriage. Be the first to begin. Make it fun and without pressure.
Creating an environment between you that is positive and loving has the greatest possibility for increasing intimacy. Spouses want to be closer, both emotionally and physically, to those that they like and enjoy.
Focusing more on what is good about your partner and your marriage, rather than the negatives and struggle, are much healthier and much more likely to lead to the results that you want.
Creating an environment between you that is positive and loving has the greatest possibility for increasing intimacy. Spouses want to be closer, both emotionally and physically, to those that they like and enjoy.
Focusing more on what is good about your partner and your marriage, rather than the negatives and struggle, are much healthier and much more likely to lead to the results that you want.
Tuesday, August 24, 2010
Marriage and Sex
We often hear couples complain about their sex lives. Wives are generally less interested in intimacy inside the bed and more interested in intimacy outside of the bedroom. Men often say that they feel more connected, and so, more intimate, if there is intimacy inside the bedroom.
Struggles then subtly erode into long-term stand-offs with both feeling hurt, disappointed, unloved and misunderstood.
Has this happened in your marriage? How have you two broken the impasse?
We are interested in your experiences and will share some of out thoughts in later posts.
Struggles then subtly erode into long-term stand-offs with both feeling hurt, disappointed, unloved and misunderstood.
Has this happened in your marriage? How have you two broken the impasse?
We are interested in your experiences and will share some of out thoughts in later posts.
Tuesday, July 13, 2010
Women, Sex and Thinking: Discover 3 New Ways to Think Your Way to a Better Sex Life
Many healthy men think about sex several times a day.
Many healthy women think about sex several times a month.
That, in and of itself, causes sexual problems for men and women. Men often want sex a lot more frequently than women want sex. Neither is happy with the process and the tension that it can create in a relationship as a man pursues his wife and his wife feels pressured. Each of them feels like a loser, even though they have different reasons.
(Disclaimer: In some relationships, it is exactly the opposite … Women are much more interested in sex than their male partners. Nothing is “always” or “never”.)
The reasons that many women have less interest in sex than their partners are complicated. Much more complicated than we will explore in this brief article. Check back with us for more on this topic at a later date and we will discuss women, men and intimacy as well as other related topics.
We want to address just one of the reasons why women are less interested in sex. It comes from a woman’s innate ability to multi-task. This means that she is thinking about and often doing, many things at once.
When one’s mind and body are so busy, how can a woman possibly relax and think about and enjoy a hot rendezvous with her husband!
We have all heard jokes … or experienced first hand … the many different things that go through a woman’s mind while having sex. (Hard to call it “making love” sometimes.)
* Laundry
* Dinner
* Errands
* Work
* Problems with children
* And on and on.
The person who loses most when this occurs is the woman. The emotional and physical rewards of being in-the-moment and sharing lovemaking with a partner are many. Researchers have noted the positive hormonal changes in brain chemistry after sex as well as the effects on the ability to handle stress.
Women Can Learn To Focus on the Experience and Enhance Their Sexual Experience
Here are 3 steps to help you think your way to a better sex life.
Click here to read the rest of the article.
Many healthy women think about sex several times a month.
That, in and of itself, causes sexual problems for men and women. Men often want sex a lot more frequently than women want sex. Neither is happy with the process and the tension that it can create in a relationship as a man pursues his wife and his wife feels pressured. Each of them feels like a loser, even though they have different reasons.
(Disclaimer: In some relationships, it is exactly the opposite … Women are much more interested in sex than their male partners. Nothing is “always” or “never”.)
The reasons that many women have less interest in sex than their partners are complicated. Much more complicated than we will explore in this brief article. Check back with us for more on this topic at a later date and we will discuss women, men and intimacy as well as other related topics.
We want to address just one of the reasons why women are less interested in sex. It comes from a woman’s innate ability to multi-task. This means that she is thinking about and often doing, many things at once.
When one’s mind and body are so busy, how can a woman possibly relax and think about and enjoy a hot rendezvous with her husband!
We have all heard jokes … or experienced first hand … the many different things that go through a woman’s mind while having sex. (Hard to call it “making love” sometimes.)
* Laundry
* Dinner
* Errands
* Work
* Problems with children
* And on and on.
The person who loses most when this occurs is the woman. The emotional and physical rewards of being in-the-moment and sharing lovemaking with a partner are many. Researchers have noted the positive hormonal changes in brain chemistry after sex as well as the effects on the ability to handle stress.
Women Can Learn To Focus on the Experience and Enhance Their Sexual Experience
Here are 3 steps to help you think your way to a better sex life.
Click here to read the rest of the article.
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