tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3665524030954203609.comments2021-03-03T15:27:27.396-05:00Relationship DilemmasAnonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03903837774504815880noreply@blogger.comBlogger28125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3665524030954203609.post-76683403619051773752015-04-25T19:09:31.948-04:002015-04-25T19:09:31.948-04:00Love is accepting all for who they are, and lettin...Love is accepting all for who they are, and letting them be as they are. Love is not needing to change anyone, because you are able to meet your own needs, without seeking relief externally.Bethany @ Online Therapy and Coachinghttp://onlinetherapyandcoaching.org/blognoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3665524030954203609.post-23791102724156538872014-12-10T00:31:47.155-05:002014-12-10T00:31:47.155-05:00You have such an interesting blog. Thanks for shar...You have such an interesting blog. Thanks for sharing, I enjoyed reading your posts. All the best for your future blogging journey.Sridhar Chandrasekaranhttp://ipersuade.blogspot.in/2014/08/list-negative-words-phrases-statements-sales-customer-examples.htmlnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3665524030954203609.post-40266833586989555442014-10-11T11:23:40.365-04:002014-10-11T11:23:40.365-04:00Hi! I'm a few month old wife but having a nigh...Hi! I'm a few month old wife but having a nightmare coping with being married. My husband blames me for everything wrong that cross our way when he's in a bad mood. And when he's in a good mood, he pampers me like a princess. I dont know how to handle situation because I dont want to end up this marriage. Whenever I try to reason with him he talks pointlessly blaming me for everything. He just dumps everything on me. I am really in a fix because I feel like I dont know him anymore. I just dont know what to do now.pamelanoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3665524030954203609.post-30424688145356376272014-09-06T11:59:48.622-04:002014-09-06T11:59:48.622-04:00This comment has been removed by a blog administrator.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3665524030954203609.post-76909223480488673272013-06-17T08:47:20.049-04:002013-06-17T08:47:20.049-04:00Do you think that there really is a chance that he...Do you think that there really is a chance that he will change? Or does his track record show you otherwise?<br /><br />If you think that there is any chance he will change, ask him to go with you to talk with someone. If he won't, go on your own. If you think that the likelihood is slim, find a good support system who can help you break this pattern so that you can have a clean break.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03903837774504815880noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3665524030954203609.post-80012047490172031332013-06-17T00:17:05.524-04:002013-06-17T00:17:05.524-04:00My husband always throws stuff in my face I filed ...My husband always throws stuff in my face I filed for divorce and he came back in my life saying he is going to change and I will c he will treat me good not go out without me and the minute I move back home he is back to the same old person. What do I do cuz I can't take him going out without me and he blames me for everything. Not only that but I left him cuz he was talking n hanging out w a female he works with. He is now going out with his friends again and not inviting me and when I ask him if I can go he throws a fit and starts putting me down. I have low self esteem due to his mean ways. What do I do I can't take much more. special onehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08160068613638584967noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3665524030954203609.post-32166963423359786252013-04-21T17:26:51.817-04:002013-04-21T17:26:51.817-04:00I try but its never is enough. And instead of tryi...I try but its never is enough. And instead of trying to show me how too do better way ..I get everything wrong thrown in my face. I cant have my friends over .They get on her nerves but wont let me go out with them. .and when she does it not a " go ahead and have fun" its go take him his getting on my nerves ext.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3665524030954203609.post-52346791292311371182013-04-18T12:42:19.757-04:002013-04-18T12:42:19.757-04:00You cannot change another person. You can only ch...You cannot change another person. You can only change how you handle yourself and how you react to anyone else.<br /><br />Find ways to be a calmer and smarter person yourself. <br /><br />You also may have to rethink whether or not the two of you are a good choice for each other.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03903837774504815880noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3665524030954203609.post-56592657251951726772013-04-17T17:40:41.305-04:002013-04-17T17:40:41.305-04:00My fiance and I argue about everything, the most t...My fiance and I argue about everything, the most thing that I don't like about him is that he is a critic, shifts blames, never wrong and mostly has a selfish tendency. I may step onhis toes and apologies for the wrong act and he willgo on and on up until I take back the apology, he doesn't aplogise when he has to, I sleep angry and wake up feeling worse. This has been happening for a while now I sometimes hate him, swear and even poke him because I've tried to talk about our abnormal fights and solution but he doesn't listen. Even worse when he makes me angry and then I shout instead of him keeping quiet or apologising he starts dissing me and tells me that I also do the same and yells, it ends up like a screaming contest and I've had it. He's very spiteful and mean. What do I do?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3665524030954203609.post-84555017392600350212012-07-03T09:03:51.755-04:002012-07-03T09:03:51.755-04:00So me an my boyfriend can't seem too stop talk...So me an my boyfriend can't seem too stop talkin we try too talk it out but at times it can get heated an in the end we end with I love you but why go threw that in the first place??Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3665524030954203609.post-75352053123801790842012-06-25T11:31:39.898-04:002012-06-25T11:31:39.898-04:00Yes as mentioned above by an anonymous wife, what ...Yes as mentioned above by an anonymous wife, what if the husband is not ready for counselling, his problem for years in a maariage is to critise the wife, never sit down & talk eye to eye even for 5 mins. if we both speak, we end up in arguments as our interstes don;t meet at all. I grew up in a faith & culture where wife does not leave husband & go away, esp. when she has kids. <br />How is that a man who critisize the wife, who finds faults in in her, sees only the good in other women & have a woman in his life as a friend & also make his son become her best friend, leaving the wife alone to think, this too shall pass!!! A ife who believes thsi is a character test for me from god & go one....let go & go on in life. Still being human the thoughts taunt her daily hearing to the man's curses & rude talks to his wife who is pregnant again??Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3665524030954203609.post-39134576329201580742012-06-19T03:46:31.427-04:002012-06-19T03:46:31.427-04:00Very on time for me:)Very on time for me:)Mature Dating UKhttp://www.mature-dating-uk.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3665524030954203609.post-31122843433462436482012-03-07T07:43:49.399-05:002012-03-07T07:43:49.399-05:00There are strategies that you can try such as givi...There are strategies that you can try such as giving your partner space and finding ways to get yourself in a healthy spot while also being positive in the relationship. Not easy to do and you would most likely find a benefit to using the support of a good couples counselor who can guide you along with specific steps.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03903837774504815880noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3665524030954203609.post-84558460160281478712012-03-07T01:18:19.518-05:002012-03-07T01:18:19.518-05:00What is there to do when ur partner gives up on yo...What is there to do when ur partner gives up on youAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3665524030954203609.post-6468732744923722652011-12-12T17:37:59.749-05:002011-12-12T17:37:59.749-05:00I strongly recommend that you seek counseling as s...I strongly recommend that you seek counseling as soon as possible. Go alone if your husband won't go with you. One person can break a bad pattern. You need to take care of yourself and get the help you need.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03903837774504815880noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3665524030954203609.post-25270312802681719992011-12-08T16:33:19.193-05:002011-12-08T16:33:19.193-05:00my husband is often very critical. Now this behavi...my husband is often very critical. Now this behaviour is driving me insane and I get loud and have even fisted him a couple of times. Iam so not happy as this is not my personality. How can I stop?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3665524030954203609.post-81475659157365056912011-09-14T06:57:09.175-04:002011-09-14T06:57:09.175-04:00Part of it is, certainly, in finding ways to take ...Part of it is, certainly, in finding ways to take a break when you realize that you are upset. You might try a few deep breaths or a simple comment like "I am not sure how to respond to that." It will take practice, especially for sensitive people or those who flood easily.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03903837774504815880noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3665524030954203609.post-53936079789181758432011-09-14T04:10:33.255-04:002011-09-14T04:10:33.255-04:00My problem is that I don't realize how upset I...My problem is that I don't realize how upset I am until after I've said something I regret. I don't know how to stop and calm myself down before responding with an outburst and rudeness instead of a calm statement.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3665524030954203609.post-10369451693741796752011-08-28T17:59:56.733-04:002011-08-28T17:59:56.733-04:00It is good that you are asking for help. That is ...It is good that you are asking for help. That is the first step. I strongly encourage you to find someone to talk with, a professional couples counselor, who can work with you both to understand your anger and learn ways to handle conflict in loving ways.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03903837774504815880noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3665524030954203609.post-70043581850555819392011-08-27T22:02:06.214-04:002011-08-27T22:02:06.214-04:00Me and my husband don't know how to control ou...Me and my husband don't know how to control our temper! We through valuable things and say thing that we don't mean. How do I just stop all of this???Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3665524030954203609.post-66818231853754810332011-01-02T19:06:26.678-05:002011-01-02T19:06:26.678-05:00The meaning that I take from this quote is that it...The meaning that I take from this quote is that it is more important to focus on a healthy relationship than to win an argument. <br /><br />Winning is not always the best solution and looking at each difference should not always seem to be a "win or loose" situation.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03903837774504815880noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3665524030954203609.post-17537259853516389962011-01-02T18:45:23.176-05:002011-01-02T18:45:23.176-05:00I think that quotes truly describes the dilemma lo...I think that quotes truly describes the dilemma love brings to the heart! I know it's not suppose to feel like a problem... however, some of us just can't seem to walk a straight line when it comes to the "L" word. <br /><br />Maybe you have a few words of wisdom for me? <br />http://howtokeepagoodman.blogspot.com/Samanthahttp://howtokeepagoodman.blogspot.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3665524030954203609.post-70929872985212868262010-11-08T15:32:39.526-05:002010-11-08T15:32:39.526-05:00Hummm, only 7? Well, I guess that's one a day,...Hummm, only 7? Well, I guess that's one a day, all week... ;)temptresshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00208596817158748802noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3665524030954203609.post-85256812942470772912010-04-06T07:43:11.967-04:002010-04-06T07:43:11.967-04:00It is a tough situation. We have some suggestions...It is a tough situation. We have some suggestions on our website, http://CounselingRelationshipsOnline.com.<br /><br />Check out the pages, under Online Marriage Counseling titled "Staying in Love" and "Falling Back in Love".Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03903837774504815880noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3665524030954203609.post-85095711997298325942010-04-06T07:00:36.707-04:002010-04-06T07:00:36.707-04:00I'm in this situation now. I'm not married...I'm in this situation now. I'm not married, but I'm in a serious relationship. I've 'lost' my feelings and I want them back. I find that as much as I try, I get nowhere. I just don't know what to do to feel love for my boyfriend again. I don't want to lose him, and he is hurting. The whole situation makes me very anxious. What do I do?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com